The guide in brief
Bondage & BDSM gear, explained.
What is restraint gear?
Restraint (bondage) gear holds a consenting partner in place: padded wrist and ankle cuffs, collars with a D-ring, under-mattress restraint systems that turn any bed into a restraint bed, bondage rope, and bondage jackets. Good restraint gear is soft against the skin, adjusts to the body, and releases quickly.
What is impact play?
Impact play uses tools like whips, floggers, paddles and canes for sensation, from a soft thud to a sharp sting. Start light, warm up slowly, agree on a signal, and keep to fleshy areas. Our impact play kit puts the full range in one bag.
Where should beginners start?
Most couples start with a bed restraint kit (cuffs and an under-mattress strap, no tools or permanent setup) or the Half Jacket. Read your first night with restraint and our safewords guide before you begin.
What is a bondage jacket?
A bondage jacket (also called a restraint jacket, BDSM jacket or bondage coat) is a fitted jacket with straps, buckles and D-rings that holds the wearer’s arms in place: a comfortable, lined take on the straitjacket. It spreads the hold across the body, so it stays comfortable longer than cuffs. See jacket vs cuffs vs rope.
Safety, simply
Agree on a signal before you start, keep the first session short, tighten one notch at a time, and never leave a restrained partner alone. Keep blunt safety scissors in the drawer. KBD sells to adults 18+ only.